IUD gone wrong

Okay so I thought why not try this, after all I am in a commited relationship and this would be so much better than remembering the pill or the side effects from depo. Well what I had not expected was that the most effective part of this birth control was that I wouldnt even want to do it period. I was completly painful. Not to mention my cycle was so heavy that I didnt/couldnt leave the house. Okay so have it removed right. Didnt work out call you losses? Yeah easier said than done. I go in state my issues and when its time to remove they couldnt. They tried and after tears, blood shed, and pulling out almost all of the removal strings out I was scheduling surgery and and was in the operating room the next day.And as far as sex goes it has never been the same since. They say its a unlikely chance but after my experiance I have found more and more woman who have had the same experiance if not worst.