It's kind of sad when your husband just doesn't care that much about you to spend the money. After all you are his wife, so why is he putting so much behind. He needs to treat you good. This is why you need to know what kind of man you're married to anyways, cause you will get the consequences afterward. If he was cheap when you dated him then he will be cheap when you are married to him. Either way, he will be cheap. He needs to be generous and if he's not, maybe you should rethink about your relationship with him. You can also get out there and make your own money. Yes, who says that men will pick up all the tab. I would feel insulted if my man say that about me. He needs to care for me and not treat me badly. I won't put up with a cheap husband but it's up to you whether you want to put up with him or not but here are a few tips to help you.
You don’t have to stay at home
If you can work, you should work so you have money to spend. You don’t have to stay at home all the time. You will run into more marriage problems if you depend on him too much for money.
You can work
You can work and have your own money. It’s less demanding on your husband if you can work as well. If you’re at home because you’re pregnant then he should understand. When you’re back on your feet, you should be able to work and have your own money.
Have your own account
You can save money in your own account if you work so you don’t have to beg for money from him. You don’t have to ask him for money all the time. It’s easy when you can have access to money instantly.
Talk it over with him
You can talk it over with him and let him know that you would like to have some more money to spend and you feel like you deserve it for being his wife. It’s not ok to keep money too tight from you since you’re part of his family.
Have him shop for you
If you don’t get cash from him, you can still get him to buy you the things that you will need. It’s not fair to have to go without some of your basic needs.