KY now has a mistable personal lubricant. It can be sprayed directly to the intimate area and is latex condom compatable.
By gosh, it works. I was afraid there would be lubricant everywhere or that it would prove to be just as messy as the old stuff, but it works really well. The mist is focused and two or three shots are quite adequate, so you won't be sitting there spraying for all eternity, though you'll have to pump it a few times the frist time you use it. It is silky rather than oily, it lasts the duration and isn't sticky. The 1 ounce size comes in a small, manageable bottle that hasn't leaked at all, so it is travel friendly. It also comes in a 3 ounce size. I bought the warming version and it actually does warm and smells pretty good too. Note that it isn't edible.